Who better to advise on mind-blowing sex tips than one of the most stunning and experienced escorts in Lisbon?
Lisa…which obviously isn’t her real name…has been working as a high-end escort in Lisbon for just over three years now. Three years that have taught her more about sex than the other 21 years of her existence.
So for singles and couples alike looking to spice up their sex lives, what kinds of tips and tricks do the best escorts in Lisbon have to share?
Foreplay vs. Sex
If you’ve been told before that foreplay can be even better than full sex, believe the hype! Not necessarily for men…at least in general…but so many women get the most out of sex before things move on to penetration. Not that it isn’t nice, it’s just that foreplay can be better. My advice would therefore be that for any men out there who’re prone to skipping foreplay, it’s time to get a grip. Skipping or cheaping-out on foreplay is just plain selfish.
Mistakes During Foreplay
There’s really only one mistake you can make with foreplay – ignorance. With your hands, mouth and other gadgets all over your partner’s body, it should be pretty easy to figure out which spots are the sweet-spots. That little yelp or squeal you hear is basically their subconscious way of saying ‘More Please!’ Foreplay can be such a waste if you focus on what you think they like or what you yourself would like, rather than what actually works for them. Let their reactions guide you and the rest is pretty easy.
Common Mistakes Men Make During Sex
Forgetting they’re with another human being and hammering away like they’re screwing a robot. Not only is this a huge turn-off, it can also hurt like hell. Grabbing a little hair, the occasional spank, even being thrown around the place (carefully) can really add to the experience. Getting carried away with the aggression never does. Likewise, I hate when men are too shy to say what they want. What’s the point making things up as you go along for hours, days, weeks etc. and never getting it right? If something feels good and you want more of it, just tell me!
The Best Sex Imaginable
It might sound rich coming from an escort, but the best of sex I’ve ever had has have always been with guys I’ve had a deeper connection with. One night stands and flings can be wild, but I think there’s so much more to sex than the physical aspect. When you really have that unmistakable connection, the whole thing feels like one massive orgasm from start to finish. Maybe it’s got something to do with the respect and selflessness involved. It’s hard to explain. You’ll know what I’m talking about or you won’t.
What Girls Like
Ha! This one always makes me laugh, especially when I get to educate guys. Far too many men – most probably – have no idea that girls tend to be so much kinkier than they realise. So many men would love to bring sex toys into the bedroom, but they don’t because they think their partner will think they’re dirty. In reality, women love getting adventurous in the bedroom. They also love the kind of man who will do whatever it takes to blow their minds every time. Just because we come across as sweet and innocent doesn’t mean this is the case at all.
Try New Things
This can be a tricky one. Suggest something your partner totally isn’t into and it could totally change their opinion of you. That’s why I advise starting things out as slow as possible. If you’d like to bring a petrol-powered 20” dong into the bedroom, maybe start things out with a smaller and less terrifying finger vibrator. And don’t forget – a couple of glasses of wine before hitting the sack can be a great way of broadening perspectives…shall we say!
The Biggest Turn-Ons
Confidence, generosity and the ability to take control in just the right amount. These things alone are pretty much guaranteed to earn you a place in the beds of most women.
The Biggest Turn-Offs
The exact opposite of the above. Ass-holes, arrogant jerks, selfish people and the kinds of guys who just sit there and wait to be told what to do. There may be some kind of market out there for folks like this, but it’s a small one…trust me.
I’m actually pretty neutral when it comes to porn. Some think it’s the most amazing and important thing on Earth, others find it completely gross. I personally don’t mind it, but I completely respect those who do. If you want to bring porn into your partnership, my advice is the same as we try new things in general. Slowly but surely, greasing the wheels with a couple of glasses of wine if necessary.